What happens now?
My wife died on May 2, 2020. This is what happens next.
The story of many of our experiences starting from her diagnosis with glioblastoma on March 27, 2016, to her death were shared julieslaysthedrumph.com.
You and Me
I wrote this song about our marriage. It’s the first song I ever wrote. I used the guitar she bought me before we were married. I sat in the bed on the place where she died as I sang it. I even recorded it on her old phone. None of this was in my mind…
Bottle Caps
One of the most emotionally exhausting things is missing things about Julie that annoyed me when she was alive. This immediately leads to a feeling that I wasted some of our relationship. Now the opportunity has gone forever. All aboard the train of grief and self-loathing. One of those things was her tendency to fill…
Idiots
There are some things that can be postponed, like moving the Day of the Dead arrangements that adorn our home. There are other things that have to be dealt with on someone else’s timeline. Predominantly, these are financial and government forms. I hate dealing with these things. Removing her name from bank accounts, transferring retirement…
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Afterward 